Paging Sarah Palin! The Disabled Kids in Fulton, Mississippi Need YOU!

Considering how much grief Sarah Palin gave Rahm Emanuel when he called liberal Democrats “f*cking retarded,” I hope she’ll have something to say about the kids from Itawamba Agricultural High and their cruel dismissal of two learning disabled kids who were sent to the “official” prom with other seven students–including Constance McMillen whose only wish for the prom was to wear a tux and bring her girlfriend–while the majority of their classmates danced away at a private event some called a prom on their Facebook pages.

Dear Sarah Palin,

You are a super all-American mom who fiercely defends her kids. I hope your son Trig is never treated the way some of the students at Itawamba Agricultural High School were this past weekend.

Can you imagine how excited these sweet teens were to go to the prom at the country club? The joy they felt in their formal wear, the pride their parents had as they took pictures and dropped them off with their corsages in place? What a momentous occasion for any teen, and what a huge landmark for a learning disabled kid, going to the prom!

And then comes the horrible realization that they were set up…only nine people are there! Where are all rest of the kids, the pretty girls, the smiling jocks? Well, gee they are at another party, one these kids weren’t invited to.

Mrs. Palin, here’s what one student, who goes by the screenname of softballgirl10 wrote:

and i don’t understand the disabled kids stuff, we don’t even talk to them, so stop judging. they could have come to our prom if they wanted to.

That’s right, Mrs. Palin, the students who went to the secret prom “don’t even talk to” the disabled kids. How could these kids have “come to our prom if they wanted to”?

These kids were treated like pariahs. I hope you take a stand for these disabled kids like you did when Rahm Emanuel called people “retarded.” You have shown America that disabled and special needs kids  are  a glorious gift and that they deserve the respect and compassion. And to be treated as equals.

On behalf of the kids of Fulton, all kids and the kids they may have, and all the people they will meet and affect, please take a stand and let the students and families of IASH class of 2010 know that what they did was wrong, cruel and downright mean to others and to themselves, as lying and deceiving are self-harm and thus sin. This is not what America stands for, this is not who Americans are. Mrs. Palin, you have often made much of the importance of  American values. This is a matter of values, of principle; not politics.

Respectfully,

Lisa Derrick

10 Responses to "Paging Sarah Palin! The Disabled Kids in Fulton, Mississippi Need YOU!"
nlubofsky | Wednesday April 7, 2010 06:55 pm 1

Right on, Lisa!! This is an excellent point, and a well-written letter. I hope Ms. Palin reads it and acts on it the way she should!


AZ Matt | Thursday April 8, 2010 07:57 am 2

You could probably get Sarah to condem the high school kids if you paid her $100,000 speaking fee.


aeonic | Thursday April 8, 2010 01:29 pm 3

I wish more people would pay attention to the “rights” of the disabled here. It wasn’t just Constance who was discriminated against however; for you to actually write “what a huge landmark for a learning disabled kid; to go to the prom” is RIDICULOUS. It should NOT be a “huge landmark” it should be “a party” and a “rite of passage” as it is for every other kid. A person who is disabled is like “every other person” and has the right to be treated accordingly. What Disability Rights are about is about making it more “easy” to live life. People make a mistake in over-emphasizing another person’s disability or condescending as this sentence does as though the person with the disability is somehow so “other” than a so-called “normal person.” I think I know what I write about; I have been a “reader for the blind” and I have done work with disability advocacy as well as being disabled myself.

Your heart is in the right place and I agree that Ms. Palin SHOULD think about this situation if she wants to speak of people/children with “special needs.” I also agree that we should be calling MUCH MORE ATTENTION to the “exclusion” of the disabled students and whoever else was “excluded” and made an “outsider” in this story of a very large “In-Crowd” created in part by angry parents (at least 50 of them according to one story) who threw a large private-party so no outsiders could get “in.” What they threw was a “prom” the school-board had cancelled to keep Candace and her lesbian date out (in part because candace wanted to wear a tuxedo; as if that ever hurt anyone).

Make no bones about it. The students posted hateful remarks about the “learning disabled” as we do see here as well as Candace.

A horrible chapter in American History has just been made in a small community in Mississippi. We need to explore the WHOLE story. This letter is at least aknowledging the fact other kids were left out and I agree– Sarah might condemn the high school kids over the disability issue for $100,000. But in all fairness, she doesn’t like people attacking “differently abled kids.” She won’t stick up for a lesbian but she might stick up for the cripples (I use that word to reclaim that word; not to slight anyone) for free.


sdpty | Thursday April 8, 2010 05:54 pm 4

I’m surprised more people haven’t commented on Patricia Nichols’ comments.
“Kayelyn this was not prom. this was a party!!!! PROM WAS AT COUNTRY CLUB!!!!”
The lengths to which they went in order to be deceitful! And then to correct the kids when they called it their PROM, which to them, it was, forcing them to be complicit with this behavior.
Patricia Nichols must be very proud of herself and the lessons she taught her teen and imposed on other teens in the community. I’m sure Jesus would not have excluded people in this way and would have taught a different lesson to these Mississippi teens. I guess Patricia Nichols and Jesus would do things differently. Patricia Nichols would call it a PARTY. I’m sure Jesus would have called it something else.


ThingsComeUndone | Thursday April 8, 2010 06:11 pm 5

Sarah Real America has shown their true colors again her son I’m sure would not enjoy Sarah’s America.


DonWilliams | Friday April 9, 2010 12:43 am 6
In response to ThingsComeUndone @ 5

Get real, TCU. In Liberal America, her son would have been aborted, and I say that as a staunchly pro-choice person.

Let’s not delude ourselves, when you abort a child because it’s “defective,” you’re indulging in Eugenics.


DonWilliams | Friday April 9, 2010 12:46 am 7
In response to aeonic @ 3

Quick question, Aeonic, concerning the rights of the disabled, which you are properly considering.

Does a fetus found to have a disability have the right not to be aborted simply because it’s disabled?


DonWilliams | Friday April 9, 2010 12:47 am 8

Lisa, I’m not sure I understand why you’re equating the remarks of White House Chief of Staff Rahm Emanuel with those of high school kids. Does anyone expect them to be held to anywhere near the same standard?


Lisa Derrick | Friday April 9, 2010 01:17 am 9

Don, it wasn’t the remarks.

It was the act of creating a private prom and leaving these kids in the lurch.


DonWilliams | Friday April 9, 2010 03:39 pm 10
In response to Lisa Derrick @ 9

So, Gov. Palin is supposed to comment on high school proms now? Where does Pres. Obama stand? Why hasn’t he stood up and opposed this discrimination? Oh, wait, he’s the guy who jokes about the Special Olympics. Nevermind.


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