Oedipus Wrecks: Some Inheritances Just Aren’t Worth It

David Berman, founder of the indie cult band Silver Jews has dissolved the group and in a statement on his label’s website reveals a dark secret straight out of Star Wars: His father is anti-union smear merchant Rick Berman. Here’s what David has to say about his strange and ugly relationship with his father and how it shaped his life and art–and the lives of his fans. David’s pain and sense of social justice and moral outrage is palpable in this moving statement:

Now that the Joos are over I can tell you my gravest secret. Worse than suicide, worse than crack addiction:

My father.

You might be surprised to know he is famous, for terrible reasons.

My father is a despicable man. My father is a sort of human molestor.

An exploiter. A scoundrel. A world historical motherfucking son of a bitch. (sorry grandma)

You can read about him here.

www.bermanexposed.org

My life is so wierd. It’s allegorical to the nth. My father went to college at Transylvania University.

You see what I’m saying.

A couple of years ago I demanded he stop his work. Close down his company or I would sever our relationship.

He refused. He has just gotten worse. More evil. More powerful. We’ve been "estranged" for over three years.

Even as a child I disliked him. We were opposites. I wanted to read. He wanted to play games.

He is a union buster.

When I got out of college I joined the Teamsters (the guards were union organized at the Whitney).

I went off to hide in art and academia.

I fled through this art portal for twenty years. In the mean time my Dad started a very very bad

company called Berman and Company.

He props up fast food/soda/factory farming/childhood obesity and diabetes/drunk driving/secondhand smoke.

He attacks animal lovers, ecologists, civil action attorneys, scientists, dieticians, doctors, teachers.

His clients include everyone from the makers of Agent Orange to the Tanning Salon Owners of America.

He helped ensure the minimum wage did not move a penny from 1997-2007!

The worst part for me as a writer is what he does with the english language.

Though vicious he is a doltish thinker

and his spurious editorials rely on doublethink and always with the Lashon Hara.

As I studied Judaism over the years, the shame and the shanda,

grew almost too much. my heart was constantly on fire for justice. I could find no relief.

This winter I decided that the SJs were too small of a force to ever come close to

undoing a millionth of all the harm he has caused. To you and everyone you know.

Literally, if you eat food or have a job, he is reaching you.

I’ve always hid this terrible shame from you, the fan. The SJs have always stood autonomous and clear.

Hopefully it won’t contaminate your feelings about the work.

My life has been riddled with Ibsenism. In a way I am the son of a demon come to make good the damage.

Previously I thought, through songs and poems and drawings I could find and build a refuge away from his world.

But there is the matter of Justice.

And i’ll tell you it’s not just a metaphor. The desire for it actually burns.

It hurts.

There needs to be something more. I’ll see what that might be.

DCB

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12 Responses to "Oedipus Wrecks: Some Inheritances Just Aren’t Worth It"
dakine01 | Friday January 23, 2009 05:06 pm 1

FWIW, Transylvania University has also graduated large numbers of good people over the years.

Honest.


Phoenix Woman | Friday January 23, 2009 05:42 pm 2

Poor David. It must be like a knife in the heart.


Teddy Partridge | Friday January 23, 2009 07:18 pm 3

“Luke!”


tejanarusa | Friday January 23, 2009 07:26 pm 4

Wow. That must be incredibly painful.

Of course, I confess I’m unfamiliar with the band. I may have to look up their work.

Agreed on Transylvania U – perfectly respectable. But in his context, it works.


Frank33 | Friday January 23, 2009 07:27 pm 5

But lobbyists are people too. Some of their children want to work in the family business. The next generation influence peddlers are needed to make wars, oppress the stupid poor people, and maintain the power of the DeeCee village idiots.

Let’s be fair, corporate polluters, investment bankers, Exxon, Dow Chemical, and General Electric are people too. African American conservatives, both of them, are people too. Also, neo-conservatives are people too. But those Al CIAda, they are not people.

“People should understand that lobbyists, per se, are someone’s father, mother, son, daughter,” said Reid. “They work for a living.” The Democratic leader’s sons and a son-in-law have worked as lobbyists.


Larue | Friday January 23, 2009 07:41 pm 6
In response to Frank33 @ 5

Frank, it comes a point where ya gotta ask yerself, is it WORTH it to have ideals, when those ideals mean indulging the evil that you think your ideals refute.

I’m about out of indulging.

It’s time to pick sides, and choose up. Good and bad, defined.

And labeled, and dealt with. Cuz so far, the grand hooman experiment is rather wanting.

As long as free to be is the credo, those free to be will take others freedom to be.

Human race, what a run.

The older I get (55) I’m just losin believing that we can progress with them, without shutting them down.

Can we the species survive the blind faith that we can forge on despite the 23%?

Hard times, hard questions. Yours and the post point, are big phrelllin questions in these times.


Larue | Friday January 23, 2009 07:47 pm 7
In response to Teddy Partridge @ 3

Geez Teddy . . . . . thass colder n needed.

Show yer heart, hoss, I’m sure YOUR personal challenges in life as a gay person (against the odds, etc) have sensitized you better than to make a joke about this dude’s sitch.

Bad form, chap, as a leader and prominent spokesperson in these forums for the LGBT community.

Harumph.


Lisa Derrick | Friday January 23, 2009 07:59 pm 8
In response to Larue @ 7

For many of us Star Wars is modern myth or Shakespeare–a cultural reference. And Teddy was spot on.


marymccurnin | Friday January 23, 2009 08:09 pm 9

Teddy is always spot on. Mostly. :)


DeadLast | Friday January 23, 2009 09:36 pm 10

This is a great post. Thanks. More people need to come clean and expose the truth if they have the dirt. The internet is our Truth Commission.


ekunin | Saturday January 24, 2009 05:41 am 11

David, Everyone exploits. Exploitation is the sine qua non of success in the society. I doubt you know or perhaps care about the forces that shaped your father’s drive to succeed. You may, sometime, come to see your father as more to be pitied then censured. Doesn’t make it right, but that’s how we live life today.


Quebecois | Saturday January 24, 2009 04:02 pm 12

Thanks Lisa, a hell of a read.


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